The secret lives of the British aristocracy, with Eleanor Doughty

Eleanor Doughty has spent years getting to know the aristocracy of Britain — and she joins us on the Country Life Podcast to talk about their lives.

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Wentworth Woodhouse: not quite a second home for Eleanor Doughty, but not that far off either.
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Eleanor Doughty started her career writing about life as an impoverished student. It didn't take long to turn that specialism on its head, however: within a few years, Eleanor had turned her hand to writing about Britain's great country houses, and — more importantly — the people who live in them.

Over a decade later she has travelled to over 150 of the finest country piles in Britain, interviewing their owners to discover the ups and downs of their lives.

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Heirs & Graces by Eleanor Doughty is ought in September 2025.

(Image credit: Eleanor Doughty / Penguin)

Eleanor's latest book came out in September: Heirs and Graces: A History of the Modern British Aristocracy details some of her most fascinating experiences. It's a brilliant read and an ideal Christmas gift for anyone with even a passing interest in the great country houses of this nation, and the people who live inside them.

Ahead of its publication, Eleanor joined James Fisher on the Country Life podcast to talk about the people in Britain — and there are fewer than 5,000 of them in existence — who can claim to be members of the aristocracy. We're re-visiting that episode today.

From dinner with dukes to the peer who programmed his car to welcome him by saying 'Good morning, your Lordship', it's a fascinating glimpse in to a mysterious world that's hidden from view for most of us.

Eleanor's book Heirs & Graces was published by Penguin in September 2025. See more details or order it here.

Episode credits

Host: James Fisher

Guest: Eleanor Doughty

Producer and editor: Toby Keel

Music: JuliusH via Pixabay

Special thanks: Adam Wilbourn

James Fisher
Digital Commissioning Editor

James Fisher is the Digital Commissioning Editor of Country Life. He writes about motoring, travel and things that upset him. He lives in London. He wants to publish good stories, so you should email him.